{"id":2441,"date":"2016-02-08T21:20:30","date_gmt":"2016-02-08T21:20:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.doingwhatmatters.com\/?p=2441"},"modified":"2020-09-29T20:33:01","modified_gmt":"2020-09-29T20:33:01","slug":"how-to-wisely-praise-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doingwhatmatters.com\/how-to-wisely-praise-children\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Wisely Praise Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Praise has power. Well-earned and properly given praise has the power to motivate and build confidence, while improperly directed praise can create unhealthy attitudes, provide an inaccurate self-concept, and even make children unwilling to try new or hard things. What we say and how we say it matters.<\/p>\n<p>It is not hard to learn\u00a0how to offer\u00a0praise that encourages and motivates,\u00a0and the first step is learning what makes the difference. &#8220;How to Help Children Fulfill their Potential,&#8221; this\u00a0ten-minute video (above) by\u00a0researcher\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/mindsetonline.com\/abouttheauthor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Carol Dweck, Ph.D.<\/a>,\u00a0outlines the two different types of praise and their results, and offers suggestions for constructive praise and feedback.<\/p>\n<h1>Beyond praise<\/h1>\n<p>&#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.scientificamerican.com\/article\/the-secret-to-raising-smart-kids1\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Secret to Raising Smart Kids,<\/a>&#8221;\u00a0an article by Dweck, covers similar ground at the <em>Scientific American<\/em>. It approaches the topic from a slightly different angle, and a quote in the synopsis of the article\u00a0jumped out at me:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Parents and teachers can engender a growth mind-set in children by praising them for their persistence or strategies (rather than for their intelligence), by <strong>telling success stories that emphasize hard work and love of learning<\/strong>, and by teaching them about the brain as a learning machine.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Essentially, this affirms once again that\u00a0<strong>stories help to shape beliefs<\/strong> (not that anyone is questioning that). Thus we are back to one of the most essential tools of homeschooling \u2014 stories of ordinary, imperfect people who have done extraordinary things. Appropriate praise can help\u00a0children see how to apply the lessons from stories of perseverance, creativity, and courage\u00a0to their own lives.<\/p>\n<h2>Reading (of course)<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B003IQYOSC\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B003IQYOSC&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=exlit-20&amp;linkId=TEOVC3HG4OOC227T\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B003IQYOSC&amp;Format=_SL160_&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=exlit-20\" alt=\"North's Plutarch: The Translation By Sir Thomas North of Plutarch's Lives : The Lives of the Nobel Grecians and Romans By Plutarch\" width=\"89\" height=\"160\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>Where do those affirmative success stories come from? The best of the lot are stories of real people doing, against all odds, important, real things. Charlotte Mason used\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.doingwhatmatters.com\/lawgivers-review-plutarch-hicks\/\">Plutarch&#8217;s <em>Lives<\/em><\/a> in her schools with good results. \u00a0You&#8217;ll find\u00a0out more about Mason&#8217;s favorite\u00a0translation of Plutarch&#8217;s works\u00a0and how to use it\u00a0at\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amblesideonline.org\/PlutarchSch.shtml\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ambleside Online<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Another good source of\u00a0great stories of ordinary people doing extraordinary things is the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.danglaeserbooks.com\/?page=shop\/cname&amp;cname=Landmark+Books\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Landmark biography<\/a>\u00a0and similar series. I would classify these as creative nonfiction rather than straight biography because they use classic storytelling methods and dialogue to bring the protagonist to life. This makes them considerably more engaging than the dry-as-dust just-the-facts-ma&#8217;am biographies of today.<\/p>\n<p>I enjoyed them immensely when I was\u00a0young (my oft-reread favorite was <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nps.gov\/libi\/learn\/historyculture\/crazy-horse.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Crazy Horse<\/a><\/em>). My boys enjoyed them as well, and we had fun hunting for them in thrift stores and yard sales. Most are written by well-known authors and the\u00a0out of print hardcover copies are worth seeking. Because they were written for younger readers in the middle decades of the 20th century, the focus is on the character&#8217;s life and achievements. The books are well-written enough that children understand and even feel deeply about issues such as injustice, but because the narrative is presented in story fashion, there is not specific issue-oriented content.<\/p>\n<p>Some of these biographies for younger readers have been reprinted as\u00a0remarkably unpleasant-looking paperbacks, and are available at <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1QnwsU1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Amazon<\/a>. Some are available for\u00a0e-reader, but please read the <a href=\"https:\/\/everydayeducation.com\/print-or-ebook-for-literature-study\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Print or eBook&#8221; article<\/a> and linked articles at Everyday Education before choosing an edition.<\/p>\n<p>At Excellence in Literature, you&#8217;ll find two helpful reading lists to get you started with sharing encouraging stories: &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/excellence-in-literature.com\/childrens-literature\/historical-fiction-for-young-readers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Historical Fiction for Young Readers<\/a>&#8221; and &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/excellence-in-literature.com\/childrens-literature\/books-boys-like\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Books Boys Like<\/a>.&#8221; I hope you&#8217;ll find these ideas helpful.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/schoolhouseteachers.com\/dap\/a\/?a=8617&amp;p=schoolhouseteachers.com\/school-subjects\/language-arts\/classics-based-writing\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2944\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/doingwhatmatters.com\/virtue-education-and-the-electorate\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doingwhatmatters.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70.png?fit=929%2C71&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"929,71\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"schoolhouse teachers_928x70\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doingwhatmatters.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70.png?fit=300%2C23&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doingwhatmatters.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70.png?fit=929%2C71&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2944\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.doingwhatmatters.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70.png?resize=929%2C71&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Join me at Schoolhouse Teachers for Classics-Based Writing Lessons!\" width=\"929\" height=\"71\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doingwhatmatters.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70.png?w=929&amp;ssl=1 929w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doingwhatmatters.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70.png?resize=300%2C23&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doingwhatmatters.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70.png?resize=768%2C59&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doingwhatmatters.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/schoolhouse-teachers_928x70.png?resize=520%2C40&amp;ssl=1 520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 929px) 100vw, 929px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Praise has power. 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